Visitors

In the past two weeks, Ben and I have had a full house from both expected and unexpected visitors. Due to some electrical issues, my best friend Amanda and our godson stayed with us for three days. About two hours after they left, my Mother-in-law surprised us by showing up a day early for her [...]

When you don’t fit into your real life "niche"

Thanks to blogging, I have a term for a something I deal with in real life. Every Valentine’s Day, the local Harley Davidson chapter/club/group/whatever hosts a luncheon for Muscular Dystrophy patients and their families. I’d stare at the invitation, taped to my fridge for weeks, and debate making filling out the R.S.V.P. form. Eventually, I’d [...]

A Secret Message

After the funeral, we congregated at Scott and Rhonda’s house, drying tears with stories from happier times and filling the void we all felt with fried chicken, green beans and ham. As if sitting through your mother’s memorial service isn’t stressful enough on a seven-year-old boy, G-man clearly had reached his limit as the living [...]

Surprise!

Around 7 pm last night, we stood outside in the cold, shivering and huddling together, waiting for Ben to pull into the driveway. Surprise! Happy 25th Birthday! I have been dying to write up actual posts of everything I’ve been working on, but I wasn’t taking the risk of Ben reading it. He says he [...]

Our long journey begins

There was only one thing on my mind at my yearly Muscular Dystrophy appointment. For the past three years, we’ve asked about it in casual and broad terms. But this time we were prepared with focused questions and the need of a game plan. We started talking about pregnancy. To quote one of MTV’s newest [...]

If the Crown Fits

So my brother compromised with wearing the crown I made for his birthday and willingly posed for photos if we didn’t make him wear it into the actual restaurant. He busted up laughing when he saw the crown and his glow-stick axe we proudly presented him with. I didn’t get too many photos, but these [...]